personal preference: ...

 ... i'm not saying that it isn't ok for people sub to and tip @JadeyAnh while she's live, nor saying that it's not ok sub to and tip her while tuned into her streams.

i am saying that it is my preference, all things considered, to do my subbing to and tipping her while she's offline, and i don't care if there are others in chat while she's offline who would give me dirty looks.

the vast majority doesn't care about the "all things considered" beyond they're own entertainment, unfortunately.